Everything you need to know

About massage

What can my massage do for you?

Benefits of massage... expectations and 'boundaries'

I offer a number of massages to support you on your journey to (re)discovering Self. This includes Classic Relaxation and Dynamic Massage, plus the Full Body Massage Experience for women (possibly men) and a dedicated yoni/vagina massage or lingam/penis massage. We use heart-to-heart communication during all sessions. This is essential to build trust and create real connection. We gently attune, so to resonate with each other’s frequencies.

In the physical work, I use attentive and loving touch, working from my heart and third eye chakra. Although the overall structure of the massages and my specific movements follow procedures, I use intuition to guide me through the sessions. Because we are connected, I may feel some elements require more time or stronger touch, or a certain body part needs more or less attention. This is an example of heart-to-heart communicating without words.

The Full Body Massage Experience is quite intimate and usually includes a massage of your genitals. This is not mandatory, of course, and we’ll decide together what is best before we start. Maybe building-up step by step works for you. After all, a genital massage can be an incredibly powerful and healing experience, though. The aroused and awakened energy is spread throughout the body in order to work – heal – light up anywhere it is needed. We do not work towards orgasm (on the contrary), but should orgasm happen, then we welcome this moment of bliss… and use its energy well.

Prana - your life force energy

The ultimate ‘goal’ of my massages is to connect with Source and to (re)discover who you truly are. My massage opens up your body and ‘activates’ your chakras. Sexual stimulation (with FBME) provokes the flow of your prana, which can now move (more) freely. With attentive and loving touch, I guide you in connecting to the physical part of your ‘subtle body’.

Some parts that now come into the light, have something to tell you (memories, emotions, trauma, sensations). You can experience all sorts of joy, pain, sorrow, or even bliss. This gives you the chance to see things for what they are, without the story you’ve build around it – this is ego. If it needs healing… exposing it to loving light may dissolve (part of) it.

Ultimately, you will return to your core Self, including your sexual and creative Self. All your inner and sexual being is allowed to exist and express here. There is no set goal during the massage. We welcome anything that comes up. After the massage, things could take hours or even days to become clear. Whatever happens, I am always here for you…

Is this a tantra massage?

Simply said… yes and no. Some may call the intimate massage ‘tantra’, and there are some clear links… but it is not tantra. Real tantra is an energy massage that requires no touch. Nowadays, the word tantra is often misused in the western world for something that is basically a commercial and sexualized hype.

To be clear, western tantra can be very pleasant, and I can give such a massage. What I offer, though, is neither real nor western tantra. I combine techniques and knowledge from several styles (incl. said tantra). One essential difference, is that I specifically do NOT use my sacral (2nd) chakra in my work… nor any of the lower chakras, for that matter.

I use only my heart and third eye (4th and 6th) chakra. I open all your chakras, including the sacral chakra, but you will only receive during a massage. A heart-to-heart connections will go both ways, but giving or receiving is one way only. I give, you receive… that’s it. Energy flows from me to you – or better, through me to you. Read more about the (not) link with tantra on the page: is this tantra?

A meeting from heart to heart

Once our body is open to touch and relaxation, and we allow our own Life Energy to flow freely through our body, we can open our heart again to Source en love. Now, we realize that we have always known Source, and we were always able to connect… we just forgot how. The (sacred) task of a good guide (which I will try to be as your masseur), is not to do all the work for you, but to just point you to the door… so you can step through yourself.

It is easy to mistake an intimate massage for a sexual experience… just as people also call this type of massage ‘tantra’. Neither is true, and it is important to understand this beforehand, so there is no misunderstanding that could lead to fears or any expectations of something else. A session can only work if there is full trust from both of us towards each other. Only then can we truly connect from heart to heart.

This connection is at the centre as the most important part in our work together. It is the kind of link especially awakened starseeds need in order to truly meet each other at ‘a higher level’ of consciousness. To say such a thing, sounds arrogant to some, but I assure you it is true and vital. At this level of connection, there is only truth, total openness and full transparency. This re-affirms trust and allows you to fully surrender… and release.